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"At the end of the day, you are married to each other and not each other’s cultures or families," says Reddit user bflowyngz.
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The data shown above come from the Facebook dating app, Are You Interested (AYI), which works like this: Users in search of someone for a date or for sex flip through profiles of other users and, for each one, click either “yes” (I like what I see) or “skip” (show me the next profile).
When the answer is “yes,” the other user is notified and has the opportunity to respond. The graphic shows what percentage of people responded to a “yes,” based on the gender and ethnicity of both parties (the data are only for opposite-sex pairs of people).
When people make backhanded comments about your significant other’s race.
Reddit user PM_ME_UNIFORMS, a white woman married to a Southeast Asian man, explains, "The worst part for me is the number of people (OK, women) who, after learning I’m married to an Asian guy, say something along the lines of ’Oh, I couldn’t, I’ve just never been attracted to Asian men!
When you can be harassed just for being in public together.
"We were around a liberal town right outside NJ (New Hope) and we were spit on by a motorcyclist on his way out of main street," says Reddit user Zeroeh, a white man with a black wife.
On the other hand, white men responded to black women 8.5% of the time—less often than for white, Latino, or Asian women.
When your kids aren’t sure of how to self-identify. Children go through stages of self-identifying white or Asian," says Reddit user unreplicate. One kid is obviously of ambiguous ethnic heritage and the other is blond hair and blue-eyed ...
"When he was young, my son was annoyed when my wife visited him during school lunch because his friends ’found out he had a white mother.’ Now, older, he is not much into Asian culture." your kids. I never thought I would have to explain to my daughter that she is really my daughter," says Reddit user gamerplays.
When you have to deal with "jokes" about your race. When people try to "guess" your partner’s ethnicity.
Reddit user Banana Twinkie, an Asian woman, describes meeting her husband’s father, who is of German descent. "I’m a white woman married to a man who’s half Egyptian and half Native ...One white man with a Hindu wife explains that "there’s a word in Tamil [her language] that literally translates to ’useless,’ but the Tamil word is often used colloquially to mean something closer to ’not currently needed,’" says Reddit user YWAK98alum.